Transformation Through Tragedy
At twenty-two, Gampopa married a noblewoman, with whom he had a son and a daughter. A few years later, he faced a devastating loss when an epidemic claimed his family, despite his effort a physician and his numerous prayers and healing ceremonies. This tragedy transformed him, prompting a deep awareness of life’s impermanence. His wife, recognizing his unwavering word, asked him to swear to become a monk before his uncle, Palso, as a witness, which he did by placing a holy sutra on his head. After her passing, Gampopa divided his property to support her funeral, meritorious charities, and his Dharma studies, and built a famous stupa in her memory.
At the age of twenty-six, Gampopa entered a Kadampa monastery and received full monastic ordination as a bhikshu, given the name Sonam Rinchen (meaning "Precious Merit") by Lama Gyachilwa. He studied extensively with many Kadampa masters, including Geshe Lodan Sherab, Shawa Lingpa, Chadulwa Dzinpa, Geshe Maryul Loden Sherab, Geshe Gyachakri Gangkawa, Gyayon Dak, and Geshe Nyugrumpa. He became highly accomplished in the Kadampa system, earning the title "Khedrup Nyidan"—one who has achieved both scholarship and self-realization.
A Destined Encounter with a Teacher
Gampopa felt drawn to meet the legendary teacher, Milarepa. Selling his belongings, he journeyed to Milarepa in the Jomo Langmo (Mt. Everest) range, where they shared deep teachings, including tummo practice. Recognizing Gampopa’s potential, Milarepa foretold his significant role in the Kagyu Order and encouraged him to establish a hermitage at Daklha Gampo, which developed into a vibrant teaching community.
Gampopa’s legacy lies in his synthesis of the Kadampa and Mahamudra systems. He offered essential teachings, including the Lojong and Mahamudra meditations. His seminal work, "The Four Dharmas," outlined a clear path to spiritual realization, emphasizing Mahamudra as a solution for suffering. Breaking tradition, he opened Mahamudra teachings to all, profoundly influencing Tibetan Buddhism and guiding countless seekers on their spiritual journeys.
